[Abstract] psychological problems after 80 inventory, we can see similarities, you face, we are in the face of ... ... these problems, in fact, there is nothing great, if you can go to relax some of the pleasing, even if is a type of Buddhist sutras, spiritual journey, you can still go casual.
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psychological one: frustrated love - breaking up after they did not know the age of romance
80, 2008, the largest 28-year-old, the youngest 18 years old. According to psychologist Erikson theory of eight stages of life ,18-30 years old, a time when In other words, in this age, we inevitably encounter love, and withstood the test and hone it, from the small world of a person stuck his head out, learn to love themselves and others stick together - for the love of frustration and mistakes are bound to face problems in this age. brought sad red supra shoes, though heartbreaking, but also so that we become adults. We are learned after the loss, it becomes an adult. Wait until we say
security benchmark: 80 used to say after the break, but do not love, it points right. But many people do not know how to romance is to learn to deal with grief, sum up experience, people who do not love frustrated, do not know how to love. Since everyone must break this problem, you have to dare you break it.
psychological problems II: patients without love - I do not love and not love others
of course sad, but not emotional, it really makes people depressed. 80 because the only child alone, resulting in a number of Do not know love will not love. Without love, is often due to large bubbles caused loved, never lost before, naturally do not know how to fight. 80 Most of the people, as a child shoes supra, has never been the parents and siblings to share the love, need not have a lot to be satisfied, so there will not be transposed to think about the needs of others, and therefore not will love.
security benchmark: romance is often better than the narcissistic, or at least teach us how to love. First learn how to meet the demands of others, found that these requirements, the treatment of
psychological problems III: social phobia - the sin within, or outward to blame?
80 after part of the people, have entered the community, the family shelter, and Many people find interpersonal problems: and others will speak; outgoing people who feel jealous of the publicity, people will secretly harm - guess someone else's heart, like all his fault.
security benchmark: social issues, not 80 until after the problems faced by our ancestors have encountered. Does not prevent you from within outward universal take-all, the key is how you give yourself a career position, social activities are purposeful career, find their own place, say what to say, no human being under the dish, just do yourself, is the right way.
psychological problems IV: Career confusion - do not know in the end should quit after what
80 questions, so that the elders have been a headache. It seems we can easily say But lead to confusion career, not willpower problem, but we do not know what they want? 80 face of the world, just look at major events in 2008 will know - fast, changing, information and numerous great pressure ... ... more events, the more we feel small, insignificant person may also be no good even if there is a need . Moreover, born after 80 to worry about food and drink, do not like news network, just like playing with their cats up - basic needs are met, so most do not know in the end do you want? 80 Later on, it seems more clearly what they do not want: 9 job, and want to quit
security benchmark: to find their most wanted, is a very difficult thing. First, start from the understanding of their own. First understand their past, future and then ask yourself, career planning, life planning from the start. We need to think about himself alive in 2080, he wanted to have something?
psychological problems five: sexual confusion - I am very open, very traditional
80 after the problem, already talking about. However, in their own life, do you not like it so much easier. This island received the heart of some major help: boyfriend virgin own or have strange sexual fantasies, hesitant on premarital sex, unwed physical and mental injuries ... ... everyone's problem can be seen from a rule: if attitudes towards sex, extreme open or traditional, there are not psychological distress. However, if trapped in the We are young, education is not half-open half open, but the self-proclaimed younger, so always feel that the parents do something bold jaw-dropping things, coupled with the normal sexual curiosity of youth, often an impulse to do, and done on the outbreak of the psychological conflict.
security benchmark: You are open, or traditional, to their own unique standards. If it is traditional, stick to doing your Do not avoid their own in the middle, two wanted to pulling. Contradictions in the nature of this matter, detrimental. We have some of it altogether.
psychological problems six: depression - boring, really boring
habitually numb, fatigued, freshness over ... ... these words can be used to describe the 80, we are stimulated to grow up, so habits change, but also used to adapt to change. If depression is a modern disease, was born in a modern 80, how run it? Love, school, job, interpersonal ... ... can be depressed about, started fresh, and slowly I felt boring, boring is the beginning of depression, defeat will be a happy person.
security benchmark: everyone has depression, the key is to give a space of their own depression, the same as anti-Fangzei with depression, but let it see the seam on the drill. 80 are inseparable from depression, it allows us to live in modern society is more self, just remember that your depression is often refers to depression, do not buckle to their depression old hat.
psychological Question 7: Fear of Marriage disease - single to married, can not accept at least half
80 not married. First, because of the current conditions of marriage becomes higher, buy a house, car, understand the financial, mental health ... But the significance of marriage has become smaller - just a piece of paper. So 80 would prefer to live together christian louboutin sandals sale, do not want to end long-distance love. Psychologically, after marriage, so feel age 80, and suddenly turned into a rigid adults. More importantly, most of them consisting of 80 and parents after the family of three fairly stable, psychologically reluctant from their native home, leaving my parents home, create their own home, it is very difficult habit. So the marriage of anxiety, often from a sense of this from the beginning.
security benchmark: wear ring the moment, I believe that is not each other, but ourselves. Fear of Marriage, the most fundamental reason is the fear they can not bear the responsibility of marriage. So, faced with the Fear of Marriage the most radical way is to first get their own. Ask yourself, are you ready to create a completely home of their own and take responsibility for it yet?
psychological Question 8: homosexual, bisexual - I love the alien in it?
neutral United States are becoming more mainstream. And 80 more after exposure to the word There are some people, the word is to be induced on the same-sex feelings. on gender issues, was the Everyone has had same-sex love, not sex one is to look at ***; real *** must evoke physiological, psychological dependence is normal and the goodwill of same-sex feelings. For counseling, the real gay, bisexual social adjustment problems, psychological problems is difficult.
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psychological Question 9: do not want to grow up - I do not want to rely on in childhood, it
grew up, in psychology there is a word called , there is a child's soul, so doing, are like 3-year-old child behavior. The probability of early child-headed after 80 small, so most are used as a child, and occasionally a little childish is cute, but if anything to deal with their own 3-year-old, will have adjustment problems. For example: emotional crying, not have been shamelessly self-centered person ... for a adult, to give up the right of adults to do, to give up the psychological growth and psychological development, it would have been stuck in 3 years .
security benchmark: an extra day
psychological Question 10: Stress trauma - death does not seem far away
08 years of earthquakes, so many people were injured. 80 has always been the most imaginative group of people, there are a lot of friends immediately joined the The total was 80 people described as representative of the psychological vulnerability. In fact, born in a peaceful world, basically I did not experience natural disasters, is indeed fortunate in misfortune. Students in the greenhouse, is bound to fragile, basically we have not seen death, met with so much at once, meet, or anxiety, worry, is normal. We are just not used to face the trauma, are not used to face so close to death.
security benchmark: fear is a force that can help people learn a new ability. The face of death, can help us look at ourselves have been, if you can focus on a meaningful thing to do on the death of some far away immediately.
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